Suspension is all on how YOU feel it should be-
Re-valved is a good start... ride it some the way your gonna be, adjust, ride more & keep repeating till you get the desired feeling.
It sounds like a PITA azz, and is time consuming but really the only way to know where you wanna be.
I've always started real stiff and work towards a plusher ride, you can chase tweeking a suspension forever. Get it close enough and just ride, LOL