Hi 151Viper,
I weigh 250 and at times my RX-1 seemed stiff too. Try the Full Rate adjuster all the way up to the top, or A position as they call it, which is softest. You can loosen the rear shock spring and the rear front shock spring up also as they are related. The control rod nuts can be opened up also and than the suspension won't couple the front shock and rear shock so soon which stiffens things up. What I do is adjust one thing at a time and write down what that did on the same section of trail for example.
This is how I learned what change does what. I cranked the front shocks all the way up stiff and rode a bumpy section and found that was terrible. Then I would go the other extreme, totally soft. By doing the extreme you can see how they really work. You want to do this by yourself or you'll drive your buddies nuts. Good Luck, and have fun, you'll get there.
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