We've reinforced our pivot arms several times and in several different ways. Unfortunately even with the top reinforced similar to posted here (strength wise), the vertical tubes converted into a box on both sides, gussets added on the inside at the top and an extra 3/16" plate added to the outside where the pivot arm attaches to the rails my buddies are still breaking the pivot arms (in the middle, 1/2 way up the vertical tubes now).
Without any reinforcements some of the guys were breaking these arms in around 1500-4000 miles. With all of the reinforcements, they are typically lasting at least 5000 miles.
The rear arms also break where the shock attaches (the shock mount tears away from the arm). We've reinforced them by adding an extra plate beside the mount and adding extra weld to the original bracket. The rear arms are holding together after this.
Last season I didn't have a single problem (strength wise) with the suspension in my 07 RTX, yet my buddies had lots of failures with their 06 Apex ERs riding on the same trails and conditions (some were back to stock parts again though).
This year I think everyone is back to running stock pivot arms again (warranty replacements). I expect if they end up riding the same sleds, they'll be breaking them again. Two of them have given up and are getting REV-XPs and one is considering a new skid (or a REV-XP). There will still be at least one on an 06 Apex ER.
In our experience, you can beef up the monoshock and it will be stronger, but if you really want to ride them the same way a REV or Polaris can be ridden, I'd recommend installing either a Skidoo skid, a Polaris skid, or a ProActive CK skid out of an 07/08 RTX.
We've never broken a Skidoo or Polaris skid yet and it looks like the 07/08 RTX is able to run with them without issues too (although the stock springs and shock valving is way to soft for aggressive riding - at least on the 07).
For aggressive riding, the problem with the monoshock is the loads that the pivot arms have to handle are absolutely enormous compared to the loads a typical torsion spring based skid have to handle.
With the Doo, Poo, and RTX skids, the rear torsion springs basically push down almost directly on the rails, the center spring pushes down fairly directly on the rails, the shocks push down on the rails fairly directly and the pivot arms essentially just have to handle locating the rails relative to the tunnel. The locating loads, shock damping loads, and spring loads are all applied through different paths relatively directly between the chassis and the rails.
With the monoshock, the front pivot arm has to handle pushing down on the rails by twisting about the upper pivot, has to handle an incredible amount of force applied by the monoshock spring and shock itself, and has to handle locating the rails (side loads, hits, etc.). It would be interesting to calculate the stresses within that front pivot arm on the monoshock. I suspect it is somewhere around 10x higher than the stresses in a standard torsion skid.
On the other hand, the monoshock does a great job for less aggressive riders. The ride quality, handling, etc. can be excellent and if it isn't pushed too hard, a stock monoshock can be reasonably durable.
2000srx, I don't know what your custom front pivot arms look like, but they are going to have to be very strong to not fail for aggressive trail use. I spoke to some guys at a custom shop in Ontario that started to make strong monoshock front pivot arms. They stuck pretty much with the updated Yamaha pivot arm design, but made them out of chromoly (no weight savings, but much stronger) and added a few gussets to make them even stronger. Unfortunately they closed up shop so these aren't available (and never really were to the public).