Status Update:
The sled is back together. The parts to be able to reinstall the reverse gearbox still haven't showed up, but my seal for the non reverse jackshaft did. I now have a happy running pz with a non reverse jackshaft, a reverse side plate and a new (to me) YVX (reverse) secondary clutch installed.
In the unlikely event anyone else would like to delete reverse off their phazer, this is how I did it.
The part that made it possible was the non reverse oil seal 93102-26398-00 OIL SEAL,SD-TYPE (Yamaha) $7.74 Which did fit behind the bearing in the side cover and did seem to be provisioned for it.
After removing the reverse gearbox this left three holes that would then allow chain case oil to pass through the side case. One is a fastner hole to attach the reverse box to the side case, I replaced this with a lock nut and bolt combines with washers and rtv gasket maker. The other two holes are for the oil pipe and the bolt that would sandwich the side case between the oil pipe and the reverse gearbox and the oil pipe hole itself. I removed the cup from the oil pipe, filled the pipe with RTV and reinstalled it and the grommet back into place bolting it in again with another RTV's bolt and lock nut.
Everything else went back together as normal with a lot more space and less headache. Getting the reverse gearbox out was a pain and did require removing the rear engine mount and tipping the engine forward. Very tight. The jackshaft slid in with no troubles. The drive position switch wire needed to be wired to ground for the ecu to allow full rpm.
My reverse gearbox appears to have nothing abnormal going on with it and seems identical to the one I bought to replace it. I am still suspecting some issue with end play on the brake rotor shaft allowing enough movement to disengage the dogs when in drive... I need to look into this and tear the box down to be sure.
I did all of these modifications in a non destructive fashion (besides sacrificing the old, short oil pipe) so I can add reverse back in if I later choose. Maybe when it is warmer in the shop and I actually have all the parts on hand. I do think I am going to be fine without it and it will reduce a lot of complexity, weight and rotating mass. We will see.
Also a side note, I have about 5 miles on the setup now and all is well. I will run back here to update if I have anything fail.
Next step I am running a 41* helix on the YVX clutch with a pink spring! Its not bad but I have a green spring and some bolt spacers on order to get that clutch running tip top but right now the snow is falling in Munising, so I am going to go play a bit.
Thank you all for the help and guidance here. I appreciate the forum!
Erik